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Do’s and Don’ts of Dementia Care


At A Class Care, we understand that dementia care in the UK is a journey filled with challenges, love, and compassion. Whether you're caring for a family member or a friend, it's a deeply personal experience that demands patience, understanding, and a commitment to providing the best care possible. In this blog, we'll share valuable insights into the do's and don'ts of dementia care in the UK, along with an understanding of the different types of dementia.


Understanding the Different Types of Dementia


Dementia is not a one-size-fits-all condition. There are various types, each with its unique characteristics. Here are a few of the most common ones:


  • Alzheimer's Disease: Alzheimer's is the most prevalent form of dementia. It often begins with memory loss and gradually affects cognitive abilities, behaviour, and daily functioning.
  • Vascular Dementia: This type of dementia occurs when blood flow to the brain is reduced, typically due to stroke or vascular problems. Symptoms can vary depending on the affected areas of the brain.
  • Lewy Body Dementia: Lewy body dementia is characterised by abnormal protein deposits in the brain. It can cause fluctuating cognitive and motor symptoms, as well as hallucinations and sleep disturbances.
  • Frontotemporal Dementia: Frontotemporal dementia primarily affects the frontal and temporal lobes of the brain, leading to changes in behaviour, personality, and language skills.
  • Mixed Dementia: Some individuals may have a combination of different types of dementia, making their care needs more complex.


Now, let's delve into the do's and don'ts of dementia care in the UK, regardless of the specific type.


Do's of Dementia Care


Educate Yourself: Knowledge is your most potent tool. Take the time to learn about the type of dementia your loved one has and how it progresses. Understanding the condition will help you provide better care. Alternatively, join local groups where you can meet with like minded people who may face the same challenges as yourself.


Create a Structured Routine: Consistency is reassuring for individuals with dementia. Establish a daily routine that includes regular mealtimes, exercise, and activities suited to their interests and abilities. Routine helps to reduce anxiety, agitation, confusion, or disorientation. A consistent routine can provide a sense of structure and predictability.


Promote Independence: Encourage and assist with tasks that they can still manage independently. This fosters a sense of accomplishment, maintains their dignity, helps to preserve cognitive function, and helps them to preserve a sense of self. It's important to note that promoting independence in dementia care should be balanced with safety considerations. Not all tasks may be safe for individuals with advanced dementia to perform independently.


Effective Communication: is of paramount importance when interacting with someone who has dementia as it enhances connection with others, it empowers decision-making, helps to minimise agitation, ensures safety, and enhances the persons overall wellbeing. When communicating attempt to speak clearly, use simple language, and maintain eye contact. Be patient, listen actively, and avoid arguments or corrections.


Ensure a Safe Environment: Remove potential hazards from the living space. Install handrails, non-slip mats, and secure cabinets containing dangerous items. You can even install assistive technology to help keep your loved ones safe and support with maintaining their independence. Assistive technology that can help can include:


  • Personal Alarms: These wearable devices can be used to call for help in case of emergencies or if the person becomes disoriented. Some can also detect falls and automatically send alerts.
  • Home Monitoring Systems: These systems use sensors and cameras to monitor the person's movements and activities at home. They can alert loved ones of any unusual or potentially dangerous behaviour.
  • Medication Dispensers: Automated medication dispensers can provide reminders and dispense the correct dose of medication at the scheduled times. This helps ensure medication adherence and safety.
  • Door and Window Sensors: These sensors can alert caregivers when a door or window is opened, helping to prevent wandering or unattended exits.
  • Cognitive Aids: There are apps and devices designed to support memory and cognitive function, such as digital calendars, reminder apps, and electronic memo boards.
  • Dementia-Friendly Clocks: These clocks display not only the time but also the day and date in a clear and understandable format.
  • Falls Detection Systems: Some systems can detect falls and automatically notify caregivers or emergency services.


Ensuring a safe environment helps to reduce the risk of accidents, wandering, and agitation, allowing loved ones to live with greater independence and peace of mind.


Don'ts of Dementia Care


Avoid Arguments or Corrections: Arguing with someone with dementia is often futile, as their perception of reality may differ. Instead, validate their feelings and redirect the conversation if necessary.


Minimise Overstimulation: Loud noises, clutter, and chaotic environments can be overwhelming. Keep surroundings calm and minimise distractions to reduce stress.


Don't Rush: Take your time with tasks, conversations, and activities. Rushing can lead to increased stress and agitation for both you and your loved one. This is why Live-In Care would be the most appropriate form of care for clients with Dementia as the Carer works at the client’s pace, fitting themselves with loved one’s routine and within a time frame that meets their needs/ personal circumstances.


Simplify Choices: Offering too many choices can lead to confusion. Present options one at a time to make decision-making easier.


Don't Neglect Self-Care: Caring for someone with Dementia is a rewarding but challenging role where burnout can become genuine concern. If you are a full-time carer prioritise your well-being and seek support from friends, family, or respite care services when needed.


Additional Tips for Dementia Care in the UK


Access Local Resources: The UK offers numerous dementia-specific resources, such as support groups, day centers, and home care services. Utilise these resources to enhance the quality of care provided.


Legal and Financial Planning: Ensure legal matters like Power of Attorney and wills are addressed early in the dementia journey to avoid future complications.


Regular Health Check-ups: Schedule regular check-ups with your GP or Memory Clinic to support with future dementia care needs, medication management support and symptom monitoring.


Nutrition and Hydration: Ensure a balanced diet and encourage proper hydration, as individuals with dementia may forget to eat or drink. You can appoint a home care service to support nutritional or hydration needs in the absence of a regular carer.


Engage in Therapeutic Activities: Art, music, and reminiscence therapy can have profound benefits. Incorporate these activities into their daily routine to enhance their overall well-being.




Dementia care in the UK is a profoundly personal journey filled with love, challenges, and moments of joy. By following these do's and don'ts, you can make a meaningful difference in the lives of your loved ones. Remember, you are not alone on this journey. Seek support and resources, and never hesitate to reach out to professionals who specialise in dementia care. At A Class Care, we are here to provide you with the support and guidance you need in your quest to provide exceptional dementia support. Together, we can make a positive impact on the lives of those affected by dementia. For more information and personalised dementia care solutions contact us on 01223 864 066 or email us at referrals@aclasscare.co.uk